Monthly Archives: October 2008

Bridezillas wanted

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To christen the new and improved (at least on the backend) Wedding Decorator, I thought I’d pass along a press release I found in my email. If you’re going to get married sometime before next summer and want everything just right, well, We TV may be looking for you. From the press release:

Are you a Bridezilla? Will you stop at nothing to make your storybook wedding come true? Have you pushed fiancés, family and friends over the edge with your demanding, over-emotional and controlling ways? WE tv’s popular reality series BRIDEZILLAS is holding its nationwide casting call for season six at The Great Bridal Expo at locations across the country. On November 1 & 2, casting directors will be on-site at The Great Bridal Expo in Los Angeles and Anaheim, ready to meet budding brides who can prove they are the ultimate Bridezillas. Candidates must be brides with weddings between October 2008 through April 2009. All interested “Bridezillas” must prove they are worthy of the name – we want to see that you will truly do whatever it takes to have your way for your wedding, no matter how over-the-top. Be creative and show that YOU are the next best (or worst!) Bridezilla. Dress the part. Bring a friend to vouch for your not-so-blushing behaviors. Anything goes – we want to see it all!

On Saturday, the casting directors will be at the Sheraton Gateway Hotel, 6101 W. Century Blvd. in L.A. (near LAX) and on Sunday, at the Anaheim Convention Center, 800 W. Katella Avenue. If you get in through this blog, let me know and I swear I will put up with watching Bridezillas just to watch you!

An arch, pew decorations and pool flowers

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Ah, did I catch your attention with the mention of pool flowers? Yeah, you don’t see it that often, but when you do — wow! These pictures are from a friend who did not want to be identified, but she so happened to be at two weddings a few weekends ago and saw the flowers and just knew I would want pictures. The pictures were taken from her cell phone, but you can click on each photo for a bigger version.

The first wedding, by the way, was at Dove Canyon Country Club, a venue I have never had the pleasure of decorating. The area code on the website tells me its in south Orange County, and my friend says Rancho Santa Margarita. The second wedding was in Palos Verdes at a private home.

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October wedding? Then think about wedding insurance

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Photo by Flickr’s TooterMonkey

I’m sitting at home on my usual day off, just watching the orange-reddish glow of the sun illuminate my fingers at the keyboard, wondering why I’ve been to so many weddings in Southern California in October. “So many” may be an exaggeration, but maybe not, since I’ve not been to a lot of weddings as a guest, but I’ve been three as a guest in October. That’s a lot in my book. And since determining earlier this year that October is quite the popular month for weddings (at least among people who read this blog), it seems that wedding insurance must also be a popular must-have for October weddings in Southern California. Or at least it seems it should be.

The above photo, by the way, is of Malibu Presbyterian Church, which was destroyed in last year’s fire in Malibu, which was part of the 2007 California Firestorm.

Having worked in news the past five years and lived in Southern California all my life, October and November are reliably the worst wildfire months of the year. I have actually decorated and been a guest at one wedding where a fire broke out in the canyon behind the reception site, the Castaway in Burbank. But it seems to me that maybe wedding insurance isn’t for everyone…

Apparently, cold feet is one of the main reasons for a wedding being canceled, and insurance doesn’t cover cold feet. Sorry. However, let’s be optimistic and posit that both bride and groom and in-laws-to-be are ecstatic to be joining families and talk about all the other things a bride or groom or wedding planner cannot control and might need insurance on.

  • The church or the reception site: Say you’ve picked the most gorgeous sites available, nestled in the mountains of Malibu or along the beach in Texas — but then there’s a wildfire or a hurricane. This is where insurance would come in handy.
  • A vendor is a no-show, something happens to the food or the flowers, someone’s car/truck breaks down or something else vendor-related: This happens more than you might think, and I’m sorry to say I’ve had this happen to me too. If you had to cancel or postpone for something like this, insurance would cover it.
  • A member of the wedding party gets sick or is injured in an accident: God forbid your mother or father or an in-law becomes injured or gets sick, but this is definitely something covered by insurance.

I think those would be the main reasons, although, TheKnot.com also includes military deployments or surprise corporate moves as another reason why a wedding would be postponed or canceled. Although, I think in the case of a corporate move, the wedding might just become more of a destination wedding.

Anyway, do you think to might need insurance? In tough economic times, most would say — better safe than sorry. Personally, I think the ratio of cash flow to wedding expenditure should have more to do with the need for wedding insurance, and as that ratio becomes bigger, the more you should consider going easy on your wedding budget.

Then again, what about people really looking forward to getting married that day? I did a blog post last year on one couple that immediately readjusted their plans as Malibu burned. The whole point to the wedding, after all, is to get married.

At any rate, beside TheKnot.com article I found, here are a few more resources on wedding insurance from USA Today, InsWeb’s Insurance Blog, and MoneyTalksNews.com.

And as with anything wedding related, I would recommend going with a wedding insurance policy on a recommendation, rather than what comes up first in Google. Hey, that’s how I looked for it too!

Flowers for tall arrangments

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Photo by Flickr’s lukwarmmizer

Dreaming of a tall flower guest table arrangements for your wedding? I can sympathize. Tall arrangements always look elegant and graceful. But it would surprise you what flowers work well for tall arrangements. Here’s a hint — a tall flower, like birds of paradise, don’t do well for most tall arrangements. They’re too heavy and prone to falling over. Above, you’ve got a very simple but striking arrangement. It’s just gerber daisies and bear grass. You don’t need a lot of gerbers for big color impact.

Photo by Flickr’s blondytec

This arrangement is not your typical tall arrangement — first, there’s so much going on here! Goldfish at the bottom of the cylinder vase, black and white ribbon around the cylinder, then the bouquet (which was possibly used as a bridesmaid’s bouquet?) tucked into the vase. If you go with doubling your bouquets as flower arrangements, that’s smart to make your flowers go double duty, but you mind end up spending more for a vase that can support a bouquet. Bouquets can be heavier than actual table arrangements. Trust me, I know.

Here’s an oldie, but goodie from my mom. The pedestals are made of steel, so they can support just about anything. But the arrangements are topped with dendrobium orchids, a type of heliconia, ti leaves, leather fern and oranges. The neck is wrapped with sinamay, and there are more ti leaves and oranges at the base. If you couldn’t tell, this was a luau-themed party.

This arrangement is from one of my favorite recent weddings, in Whittier. This arrangement’s vase has a dendrobium orchid inside a water-filled vase, and is topped with an arrangement of orchids, larkspur, stargazers, leather fern and bear grass. That’s not a lot of flowers, and its actually pretty light. But it looks so pretty and elegant anyway.

This is from a wedding that I plan to revisit, but I can’t remember the name of the reception site! I do remember it was in San Pedro, which I love. Anyway, this arrangement is on the same steel pedestals, this time the neck wrapped with red ribbon. But the weight of the pedestals allows for more flowers — two types of orchids, gerber daisies, pink larkspur, roses, stargazers, and more I can’t name. My point — with a tall arrangement, less is more, unless you’re using a steel pedestal. Hehehe.

Indian-Syrian Catholic wedding in Philadelphia

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All photos by Shruti Mathur

My uber-wedding attender Shruti Mathur has come through again! This time, she takes us to an Indian-Syrian Catholic wedding in Philadelphia, with a ceremony at Acension MarThoma Church in Northeast Philadelphia and the reception at Celebrations in Bensalem, Pa. I love mixed-culture weddings — the result is often just spectacular and, dare I say, exotic. With Indian weddings, I fully expect rich colors and a few extravagant details and I was not disappointed.

Alternating height flower arrangements seems to be a new-ish trend. The tall ones are good, because then guests don’t have to strain to see over a tall, table level arrangement; but the short ones are good, because then guest can talk over the flowers. Hey, why not have both! Personally, I would prefer one height — either all tall or all short. That’s just me, possibly my mild case of OCD talking. I joke a lot that I’m like Monk now — “wipe! wipe!”

By the way, if you were not sure, all these images are clickable. The sweetheart table and the cake table were set up at what appears to be the head of the room. I like this arrangement — first off, its a short distance for the couple to the cake! But it keeps both in the designed “center” of the room.  By the way, the cake is strikingly simple against the rich colors of this wedding — gold, orange, red. Very pretty.

And, yes! That’s a peacock feather in the flower arrangement. Their theme was Peacocks. I love it! Flowers used included red roses, orange day lilies and spider mums. Those green, sucker-looking leaves? I’m not sure what their name is, but my mom used to love using them too.

So, if you have a theme, the trick is to use them in the details — like with a feathery pen or a bird cage for your gift cards. I love the bird cage idea. Heheh.

Shruti shares this about the couple and their wedding (and Shruti had offered another photo by the wedding photographer of this moment, but I like this one better!):

Sharon is of Malayali Christian descent and Robbie is of Anglo-Indian descent. Their ceremony was traditional Syrian Christian, with chanting and singing in both Malayalam and English and traditions blended from the Syrian Christian tradition and the Malayalee/Kerala traditions, including the crowning ceremony and the tying of a string (Minnu) and placement of a red and gold sari (Manthrakodi). Link

Here are some excerpts from the program:
“The Order of Service for Marriage according to the Mar Thomas Syrian Rite is a rich blend of symbolism, Biblical traditions and teachings, practices of the Early Church in Palestine and Syria, and the customs of South India. Christ is symbolized as the divine Bridegroom whose Bride is the Church. This is a fitting model of mutual commitment and total faithfulness that is commanded to the couple. The prayers emphasize that marriage is a Sacrament and the family, a divinely blessed institution.”

Their theme was Peacocks, carried from the programs and invites to the peacock feather on the table pen and in the boutonnieres and the signature cocktail. The couple also wanted to highlight their Indian-American heritage, and each table was numbered and also named after a famous Indian-Americans. (We had the Mindy Kaling table!)

This was also an afternoon reception, with the wedding starting at 10:30 a.m., the reception from 12 to 4 p.m. We were chased out promptly at 4 since the facility had to turn over fairly quickly. But we still managed to have a lot of fun and dancing.

And by the way, congratulations to Shruti — finally we’re going to see her wedding soon! W00t!