Big weddings go budget

If you keep up with current events as I have to for the day job, you know that the news is brimming with doom and gloom when it comes to the economy, even when it comes to happy events like weddings and babies. People are holding off on starting their families because of the economy, but at least people aren’t holding off on getting married — they’re just cutting back their wedding budgets.

Flickr photo by FamilyMan5k

The L.A. Times ran down the budget cutback details of one bride — invitations from Costco, a wedding cake baked by an aunt, wedding rings bought with coupons.

Scaled back, downgraded, digitized and homespun, weddings are getting a major economic makeover this year. While the number of weddings scheduled to take place in the U.S. in 2009 remains steady at 2.2 million, a recent “What’s on Brides’ Minds” survey conducted for gown emporium David’s Bridal found that 75% of brides-to-be said they would have to make adjustments to their wedding budget as a result of the economic climate. The average cost of a couple’s publicly traded “I do’s” is now $19,212, down 33% from its peak of $28,732 in 2007, according to the Tucson-based research firm the Wedding Report.

In the same issue of the LAT, there was also a story about the shift toward simpler i.e. more inexpensive wedding dresses. Now, I know I basically am part of the industry, but truly I applaud these changes and shifts toward simplicity — amid all the details, brides tend to forget that the whole point of all the hoopla is to get married.

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Giving away two wedding-related books

I’ve never done a giveaway before, so I suppose its appropriate that I am doing two for my inaugural giveaway. Here’s the deal — to win either one of these books, fill out this contest submission form, and unfortunately, you have to register with the blog to access the form! What should you enter? For The Wedding Book by Mindy Weiss, submit up to two photos of a wedding where you really admired the decorations and tell me why. For the She’s Gone Bridal! by Liz Razin, submit up to two photos of either bridal or bridesmaid bouquets and tell me why you really love these bouquets. However, these photos have to belong to you.

That’s it! Besides getting one of these books, your submission may be featured in a future Wedding Decorator post. Yay!

I’ll leave the contest open until 11:59 p.m. May 25. If you win, I will contact you via email and get your address and get the book shipped off right away.

Please note, this giveaway is not an endorsement of either book — I haven’t read either one because I’d like to ship them to you in the best condition possible. :)

House wedding in Malibu

They came, they saw, they got married. The wedding that I’d been preparing for the past few months came and went Saturday.

How’d it go? Well, Jinah got married, so that went off without a hitch! Everything that needed to be decorated was decorated, and I didn’t fall off any ladders, thank God for that. I’ll show you what I mean in a minute.

However, as its Monday morning as I’m writing this, I do have to confess I am still in recovery. Saturday was a lot warmer than I thought it was going to be so I didn’t bring water with me as I decorated that morning. I think the combination of not drinking any water till about 3 p.m., all the time I spent in the sun, and the lack of sleep (I have a tendency to not sleep right away when I know I have to be up early, so I ended up getting about 4 hours) left me groggy and headache-y most of the day and Sunday.

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Wedding Venue: CBS Radford Lot in Studio City

If you’ve followed this blog for any length of time, or even read the About page, you already know I’m neither a full-time wedding decorator or wedding blogger. My day job (so to speak, since I work the night shift) is online news production for CBS 2 / KCAL 9. So I happen to work at the Studio City Broadcast Center, which is located on CBS’ Radford Lot, where it so happened a reception was happening one recent Saturday.

Of course, being as nosy as I am, I had to peek in, see how it was done, and of course, take pictures. It happened to be a somewhat slow news day, so I was able to use my breaks to indulge my nosiness….er, I mean, curiosity. FYI, I just want to make it clear these are not my decorations or flowers. I’ll give you the florist’s information at the end of this post.

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Need a wedding website?

A website to pull together all the details, guest information and registry links (so important!) is just about necessary for weddings planned nowadays. However, that’s not necessarily the case — I have attended a few weddings that didn’t bother with a wedding website. But I figure as the population gets more technically savvy, it’ll become standard practice, the way online registries have become standard practice.

I have built, with my husband’s help, at least one wedding website. It was for free, so it was a big pain in the butt — for the work that my husband and I did (creating original graphics, processing photos, copy editing bios and the HTML work), I would have charged a paying client at least $2,500.

Is there a way around paying for a website? Of course! And I’m this close to heartily recommending this route. Let me explain.

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Dress up one candle to be a centerpiece

Jinah’s wedding is fast approaching, so I’m in prep mode. Just this week, I’ve set up time to go pick up some materials from my siblings to decorate with, I’m bugging a florist I’ve worked with before on the pricing of flowers and now I’m fretting a little over the candle arrangement plan we have for her guest tables. Right now, the plan is simply to place a 2×2 pillar candle in one of the vases that we picked up from Big Lots (really!) and surround it with four votives. However, now I’m fretting that this is too simple.

Flickr photo by DrGBB

So I began perusing Flickr for idea. There are a lot of people using candles nowadays for their centerpieces to cut down on costs. However, if you’re not careful, you could end up spending way more on a candle arrangement than on a flower arrangement if you go overboard. Plus, don’t forget that most people are not florists and don’t have access to real wholesale prices. So my thought is — how do you dress up one candle without breaking the bank?

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